I know I was destined to write this entry. 😄
The inspiration – a little of it, anyway – was the movie Edge of Tomorrow, which I’ll describe simply as ‘”Ground Hog Day” during wartime,’ so as not to spoil it for you too much. A bigger part of where this post started was my thinking on how to answer the question, “So what do you do?”
The best response is “G.H.R.O. W.I.S.E.R.” This is, of course, an acronym, a handy literary tool that helps me remember stuff. In this case, it’s where I want my focus to be. I’ve determined what’s important after careful deliberation. And that included deciding what I can live without. If you’re curious, the acronym stands for:
Income or Investments
Singing and playing music
Recreation – that is, an appropriate amount of downtime
You might say GHRO WISER is my mission statement. It’s my list of priorities, the areas of life I want to concentrate on, in some kind of order. Today, however, I’m not writing about the goals I have, but more about the need to have a firm idea on what they are. I’m talking about the act of choosing and planning, and whether it makes a difference in life. Or not.
So you may have heard the saying, “Life is what happens while you’re making other plans.” This is basically a consideration of fate vs free will. Which is it? Can life – a Christian life – be both? I think it’s critical to make the following distinction:
“Do my choices make any difference?” is one question;
“Does God already ‘know’ what I will choose?” is an entirely separate matter. And, it’s the less vital one.
For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways.
The gist of this verse is, I think, that there are things I can know, and things I may never know. Much of what God has done – and how He does it – falls into the latter category. I want to concentrate on the former and not waste too much time speculating.
What do or can I “know?” Here are three crucial choices:
- I can choose some very important stuff, like my attitude and acceptance of circumstances; like getting up when I fall; like asking without shame for help from others and from God; like not worrying about the aforementioned unknowables; like who I live and do for
Here’s a quote off of inwardquest.com which sums this up nicely:
“…Instead of our story being … linear… with a set beginning, middle, and end, it is like a ‘choose your own adventure’ book. Each choice you make takes you to a different fate… destiny… future. Who we are is made up of our responses to events in our lives. If we change our responses, we change our future responses, as well.”
This is the heart of recovery from addictions and compulsive behavior.
- I can realize that I do, but God determines the results; if I don’t do, nothing will be different
This emphasizes the importance of action, of not being “so heavenly-minded as to be of no earthly use.” I love this quote from Ronald Reagan:
“I do not believe in a fate that will fall on us no matter what we do.
I do believe in a fate that will fall on us if we do nothing.”
Remember the definition on insanity: doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result.
- I can remember and be aware of the evidence of my past, and that, by far, it has been good
I’m still alive, and the analogy of a sports team in the post-season is a great one. I like the direction my life is going now, and that has everything to do with living it for and with God.
Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters.
To sum up, for me the question of whether I have had any hand in what’s happened to me, past and present, is a definite “Yes!” My choices certainly brought me to rock bottom. I believe I was saved when I finally chose not to force my own decisions on life.